Because of certain situations happening, I decided that we need to have a discussion ( actually several discussions) because there are too many interconnecting issues to be ironed out before unhappiness set in. We finally started last night at least it is a good start; hopefully it doesn't end like that.
1) tentative plan after i go back to work on 1st sept
Sophie and domestic help will be going to my mum and mother in law place during the week. Mother in law: Monday and Tuesday while my mummy will take Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. I will try to get off work ASAP (fingers crossed)! So weekdays nights and weekends, we will take charge
2) from 18 months onwards, we would like Sophie to be enrolled in a childcare centre in preferably Simei or else would be Tampines. Got to start searching from 6 months onwards taking into account, that vacancy will be limited because of the increase number of babies in the year of the dragon.
3)Housework will have to be split between the both of us and probably outsource some of it. By then, I must constantly remind myself that we have different standards and no no snide remarks- unhealthy for our relationship
Hopefully both of us can make the effort to communicate
On a side note, yeah! We are going on a stay-cation at hard rock cafe sentosa on 11 dec ( our 10 years together and 3 yrs ROM). Can't wait already :)
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